Yuck, this is hard. It’s gross and dumb. Yuck.

Ten years after my divorce and about four years after Frannie died, I’m finally going through photos and my writing about the experiences. Some things are sending my nervous system into a panic and some are telling me to get in my truck and dissociate at Goodwill instead of making this website.

All of the photos will be from before (pre-2018), during (2018-2022), and after (2022-present) Frannie. The before is just as important as the during and after. I want to share the nuances of caregiving and bring other caregivers some peace within that while allowing myself to move through and forward.

I’m also fine with being human and making a mess of this. Better done than perfect.

UNDER CONSTRUCTION